How To Be A Man

In this crazy world we live in, everyone is always pressuring us to grow up. Society tell was everyday that we need to be older than we are. I'm not really sure there is an exact point to when you just grow up (unless you're Jewish). But at one point or another you're grown up. For me it seems like I've been needing to grow up. I have a lot of things going on that require a grown up attitude. For example, I will be starting Honors Business in the fall and I feel like I will be the youngest one there. I am in a long distance relationship that requires a man to lead. Both of these things need someone who is a strong and grown up leader; hopefully I can step up to the challenge.

As much pressure that there is to grow up, I am persuaded to not be so serious and kick back more. This advice comes from a close friend and is a helpful voice while balancing out option. If I grow up too much, I'll miss the fun parts of college, while on the other hand, if I'm not serious enough I miss great opportunities.

So where do I stand?

I think I am placed right in the middle. I like to joke around but I know I have great challenges ahead that require a man. I am really happy that I have these opportunities that make me grow up. I always enjoy them and they can lead to some pretty great places.

One thought I'm still wrestling with is what does it look like to be a man. How is that shown in a 19 year old's life? I am looking for answers, and I know I'll find them; eventually.

As for now, I just gotta stay on my daily grind and live Just Another Day In the Life.